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Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Debt Depression

Can You Stay Out of Debt to Avoid Severe Depression?

In our current times, debt has to be the greatest cause of depression on Americans face. Very few people in America are not in debt in one way or another. It’s our way of life. We grew up learning that debt was ok, and even good—the American Way. Just charge it. “Give the canary another seed”. Examine the predicament of many college students who are getting out of school now. They are unable to find a job. They are loaded down with loans that have to be repaid—and soon. The average is around $20,000.00 for these young adults. Those coming out of a masters or doctorate program may be indebted up to $50,000. Young MDs can be obligated up to the cost of a house mortgage just to get through medical school. The baby boomers in retirement or entering the zone save for 30 years and got cut to the quick by this two year bear market. It is down around 50%. Their losses are similar in size. Home foreclosures are skyrocketing. Home values are dropping. Unemployment just hit 8.9% and is supposedly on its way to 10% soon. Everyone is worried to death about financial survival.

Depression is a way of life for many Americans. It is caused by our current economic crisis. Some people may have a lot of debt on one hand, but on the other, they have adequate resources to pay it. They are ok. What about the rest of us?

What can we do to lower the stress of debt and the depression we may suffer? First, we must take control of the situation. Face the problem and make a plan of action. When you act, you start feeling like you are in control of things. Physicians and therapists order depressed people to be active. They are encouraged to walk, jog or take up a sport or exercise. Perhaps, they should find a hobby. You can do physical work in the garden, car repair or cut the grass. This takes your mind off of things for a while and actually gets you physically tired out. It puts your emotions to work elsewhere.

Make a plan to get out of debt. Get out the calculator and crunch the numbers. Can you or family members get an extra job? Talk to your creditors and formulate a way out. Get counseling for debt management, and consult your family members to go over things. If you involve others, the load is not as great. Get help for yourself if you are thinking of harming yourself or others. See a therapist or your physician for help and medications if necessary. Those who are stressed out and depressed, and see no way out are candidates for suicide or other crime. Neither of those is the answer.

Debt causes depression. It has led many to despair. We see it all around us. People are worried, but things are looking better. We aren’t out of the woods yet, but that quick- sand sinking feeling is evaporating every day. We really need to count our blessings, and consider each day what we have to be thankful for. We have family. We have friends. We have life. These problems will pass.

3 Responses to “Debt Depression”

Jo Says:

I have no debt, yet no real assets. Our culture is very competitive and the peer pressure to keep up with the Joneses is very strong. But the Joneses probably have a lot of debt. It is a huge relief not to have debt hanging over your head.

Stellabird Says:

Well said. If we’re in debt we have no one to blame but ourselves. But most of us thought the inflow of cash would keep the debt manageable. We thought we’d be paying it off in no time. But business has dried up and those credit cards we were using for special things, or special necessities, are now dragged out at the grocery store or the drugstore to purchase the basics of survival. They were used to pay for medicine and doctor visits, to repair the car, or pay the phone bill. How I wish I had never purchased that adorable pair of shoes that was once so irresistible. Now I’m using the cards to pay for things that were always paid for in cash until now, like food. And the numbers keep rising. I’M SO DEPRESSED. I’m so depressed it’s hard to concentrate on what I need to do to keep from being homeless. Always look on the bright side of life. Peek out from under that mountain of bills and look at the bare lightbulb hanging in the empty kitchen.

Irene Says:

In reply to Stellabird your description of depression over debt mirrors mine and saddly enough my bare light bulb is about to burn out. What next? I am clueness as to how to overcome my debt when constantantly more goes out for those necessities than come in to stop the dept from ever increasing. As for a hobby, mine has added to my debr. It’s sad when a simple hobby such as sewing costs to much to enjoy it. My quilt level is very high, I too bought the pair of shoes that sit there because I’m too depressed to put them on and get out of the house. I have repeadily made the same mistakes, I’ve now learned what others tried to tell me, but that still does not offer a way out of my debt unless I stop taking my presribed medications which is not really an option. Even with very exspensive health coverage my RX co-pays are steep and run $200.00 a month, using generics whenever possible. The cost of helthcare is putting me in the poor house, but due to health problems including severe depression, I can’t afford not to have the covereage if I want to be treated by any fairly decent health care professional. I’m stuck.

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